Packing snacks for school

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Yesterday, I asked the kids to pack their snacks as I emptied their lunch boxes to make today’s lunch. As I sorted the recycling from the garbage and they ran to the pantry and grabbed apple sauce, granola bars and all sorts of packaged treats, I told them – we can do better than this.

My husband and I both work full-time and we’re busy and often exhausted at the end of the day. As much as I love making everything from scratch, I am pressed for time these days so I haven’t kept on top of the homemade snack making. And when the kids pack their own lunches (and we try to get them to help out as much as possible), they’ll grab what’s easy. Granola bars, crackers, apple sauce and though some of it is recycled, I’ve been feeling increasingly guilty about dropping the ball on my attempt to reduce waste.

In the spirit of them still being in charge of packing their snacks for school, I told them to grab recipe books and figure out what to make for their lunches. They chose recipes, asked if we had the ingredients and did their best to make them without much help from me.

My son made whole wheat chocolate chip cookies. He read out the instructions and I did what I was told. When the dough was mixed, I brought the cookie sheets to the table for him to form the cookies while I helped my daughter avoid burning her snack of choice.

She chose butterscotch pudding. She got out all the ingredients and followed the recipe with my supervision. She’s a bit older so while she needed help lighting the gas stove and has a tendency to wander away while the recipe says to stir continuously, she was able to pull off most of the recipe by herself.

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Much better – wasteless lunch snacks. Apple, half an orange, salted popcorn, giant chocolate chip cookie shoved in a container and butterscotch pudding made with soy milk. Lunch is in a different pocket – leftover mashed potatoes, roasted brussels sprouts and vegan sausage.

In the end, they both felt a sense of achievement, got to lick their spoons and pots and traded a bunch of packaged goods for home made treats. I think I’m going to try to do this more regularly. We won’t be able to consistently avoid waste but together we can make more of an effort to do better.

The only problem is the cookies my son made are too big for most of our snack containers! My daughter’s pudding is hidden behind the popcorn.

Vegan kids at school and bullying

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I got some sad news today and it’s not the first time. It turns out that a girl in my daughter’s class says she’s gross because she doesn’t eat meat. This girl regularly makes fun of the food my daughter has in her lunch and it is impacting her enjoyment of it.

I made the kids rice pudding as a treat this week. It should have been well-liked. Rice, sweet soy milk, cinnamon and raisins – I thought it would be a nice surprise even though they’d never had it before. But there was a girl who told my daughter it looked like poo and so my sweetheart sadly told me she didn’t really enjoy it.

This isn’t the first incident of bullying she dealt with at school. She has been singled out for the food she eats – which led to a stage of her asking for sandwiches for lunch everyday so her lunch looked normal.

It’s not shocking, when I come to think of it. I’ve dealt with a lot of teasing and meanness myself at work. I’ve had coworkers try the vegan pizza and then spend every opportunity to tell everyone it was gross. A lot of people just feel the need to comment and most of the time, I don’t think it’s meant in a mean way.

I’m sensitive to the way my kids treat others. We’ve raised our kids not to comment on other people’s food. I choose what is on my plate and it has nothing to do with anyone else.

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In fact, when the subject of veganism comes up, it usually isn’t my choice. I’m living according to my own values and I’ve told my story of how and why more times than I’ve wanted to. It’s not a secret, obviously. But there are other things to talk about.

Have your kids had similar experiences? How do you handle it?